Proverbs About Daily Life and Social Relationships
Compiled by historian Kassem Hejeij
"The neighbor comes before the house."
This proverb reflects the importance of good neighborly relations in the Jabal Amel society, where stability in any area depended on strong relationships between neighbors before anything else.
"Your tongue is your horse; if you protect it, it will protect you."
This saying emphasizes the importance of careful speech. Thoughtful words can safeguard a person from trouble, while reckless talk may lead to problems.
"The eye envies, but the heart chooses."
This proverb highlights the difference between superficial attraction and genuine heartfelt choices, whether in social relationships or other aspects of life.
"Talking has no customs duties."
This saying means that people can speak freely without being taxed or held accountable, reflecting how words can sometimes be irresponsible or exaggerated.
"He who doesn’t know you cannot appreciate you."
This proverb underscores the value of deep personal understanding, as those who do not truly know you cannot fully recognize your worth.
Proverbs About Tribes and Clan Relations
"A stick breaks from within."
This proverb suggests that the greatest threats to a tribe or family often come from internal conflicts rather than external forces. Internal disputes are more dangerous than outside threats.
"Blood does not turn into water."
This saying signifies the enduring strength of family and tribal bonds. Even when conflicts arise among relatives, their familial ties remain unbreakable.
"The blow that doesn’t break you makes you stronger."
This proverb reflects the resilience of tribal communities, where hardships and challenges are seen as opportunities for growth and strengthening.
"A heavy load needs strong shoulders."
This saying means that great responsibilities require capable and strong individuals to bear them, reflecting the role of tribal elders and leaders.
"He who has a sword has people by his side."
This proverb symbolizes that power commands respect. A tribe with military and economic strength will attract allies and followers.
